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Through a rapist's eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in
prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim
and here are some interesting facts:
1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.
They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid
or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to
go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common
targets.
2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women
who's clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors
around to cut clothing.
3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through
their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are
off guard and can be easily overpowered.
4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is
grocery store parking lots.
5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.
6] Number three is public restrooms.
7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman
and quickly move her to a second location where they don't have to
worry about getting caught.
8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged
because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going
after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.
9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or
other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their
hands.
10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to
the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince
these guys you're not worth it.
POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:
1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or
with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask
them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:
can't believe it is so cold out here, we're in for a bad winter. Now
that you've seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up,
you lose appeal as a target.
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of
you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to
said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would
not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY
target.
3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of
it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER
SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.
4] If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can
do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from
behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and
armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this
guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was
trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin
and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching
yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.
5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a
particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it
is extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and
make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our
instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of
trouble. Start causing trouble, and he's out of there.
6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers
and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing
down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using
much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked
audibly.
7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of
your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any
odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel
little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really
was trouble.
FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ....I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be
some, where you will go "hmm I must remember that" After reading,
forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in
this crazy world we live in.
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your
body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.
2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks
for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from
you.... chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or
purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN
THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back
tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like
crazy. The driver won't see you but everybody else will. This has
saved lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating,
working, etc., and just sit
(doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON'T DO THIS! The
predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for
him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell
you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or
parking garage:
a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be
hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the
passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE
RIDING A TAXI CAB) .
b. If you! u are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the
passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling
them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their
cars.
c. Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and
the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest
your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a
guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE
THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are
horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS
RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times;
And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!
8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may
get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a
good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies
of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often
asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when
he abducted his next victim.
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If see some bloke raping Hotchick, sure gonna rescue her. Then, .... resume the rape!!!!!
Why not? I deserve it. My reward for saving her. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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If see some bloke raping Hotchick, sure gonna rescue her. Then, .... resume the rape!!!!!
Why not? I deserve it. My reward for saving her. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
with consent mang Juan? hihihi
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with consent mang Juan? hihihi
If it’s consensual sex, then, it’s not rape! :D
Reminds me of a Mla incident where Pinay charged an American GI for rape. US Embassy had to intervene kai puti. Inocente sa atong kina-iya. Investigation proved it was consensual sex. Nag-gold-dig lang ang babae.
Reason gave skipper warning when traveling Phil. Daghan kaaung Pinay gusto mokapyot. Don’t think Uncle Sam will intervene for his sake. Hehehe. :) ;)
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If it’s consensual sex, then, it’s not rape! :D
Reminds me of a Mla incident where Pinay charged an American GI for rape. US Embassy had to intervene kai puti. Inocente sa atong kina-iya. Investigation proved it was consensual sex. Nag-gold-dig lang ang babae.
Reason gave skipper warning when traveling Phil. Daghan kaaung Pinay gusto mokapyot. Don’t think Uncle Sam will intervene for his sake. Hehehe. :) ;)
yah tama ka hahaha
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yah tama ka hahaha
Mate, when are you going back to work?
Tell you what? Before you go, get married to a young stunner. Then, let me know so I’ll email her to join cheatingwives.com. And we’ll take it from there.
You can count on me to provide her company in her moments of extreme loneliness. Di jyud nako sya pasagdan. Rest assured she’ll be in real good hands with me. Oh, yeah, know an ideal spot in Cebu where I can fill her needs while you’re away. Free from eavesdroppers, especially Boholanos, who will then spread gossips in Bohol. Make her happy ‘til your next sojourn. Mas maau kon minyo aron dli ko mapikot. ;D ;D ;D
Signs of our times, mate. :) ;)
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What if the kidnappers and rapists are savage Fil amazons with skipper and me as their target? Mga fragile ra ba mi kaau. ;D :D :) ;)
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Mate, when are you going back to work?
Tell you what? Before you go, get married to a young stunner. Then, let me know so I’ll email her to join cheatingwives.com. And we’ll take it from there.
You can count on me to provide her company in her moments of extreme loneliness. Di jyud nako sya pasagdan. Rest assured she’ll be in real good hands with me. Oh, yeah, know an ideal spot in Cebu where I can fill her needs while you’re away. Free from eavesdroppers, especially Boholanos, who will then spread gossips in Bohol. Make her happy ‘til your next sojourn. Mas maau kon minyo aron dli ko mapikot. ;D ;D ;D
Signs of our times, mate. :) ;)
hihihi im back at work na man juan...walay mupatol nako nga young grass kay wala man ko'y monetary riches like you hihi
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hihihi im back at work na man juan...walay mupatol nako nga young grass kay wala man ko'y monetary riches like you hihi
In skipper’s and my case, it’s the other way around. Daghang Play-Misty-for-Me gusto mokapyot. Pero pr rai tuyo.
Happened to me before. Napaso na ko. Gotta be very careful history won’t repeat itself. :) ;)
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In skipper’s and my case, it’s the other way around. Daghang Play-Misty-for-Me gusto mokapyot. Pero pr rai tuyo.
Happened to me before. Napaso na ko. Gotta be very careful history won’t repeat itself. :) ;)
dapat lang, don't repeat any mistakes in the future hihi
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hihihi im back at work na man juan...walay mupatol nako nga young grass kay wala man ko'y monetary riches like you hihi
The question is, contento ka na lang ba nga mag-ingon ana pirme?
Have thrown in some ideas/suggestions here. But, at the end of the day, bahala kau sa buhai nyo. Hehehe.
As mentioned elsewhere, do have vested interests. But also have contingency plans. :) ;)
Always had. While living in Mla, my gc interview was still due in ’82. While waiting, was also planning to join family business in future. Diversify into elec construction. Was a licensed elec engr in Phil. Then, take night classes in MBA. Next mech, civil. Etc. Building up connections with the opulent was a good preparation for such plan.
Even when I came to Aus, plan was to live 5 yrs max. Just to have something to brag about. Then, go back home. Didn’t like it here. Racism was strong. With Asians as targets. Treated as 2nd class Aussies.
In '83, Sen. Aquino was murdered. Nation was in turmoil. On the brink of civil war. Expected to fall into communism anytime. Many fled country. Tnt/fm surged. After Marcos left, economy was bankrupt. People's power but no peso power.
Looking back, best time to go home would have been in the late ‘80s. The mall trend in Mla was in its incipient stage. Not long after, Cebu followed. Construction business boomed. Now, saturated.
But, then again, children became deeply rooted here. Not a good idea to uproot them and go back home. Priorities changed. Also, na-uso ang kidnapping. That's why, 'til now, still living here. Hehehe. :) ;)
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dili najud ka muoli? hahaha
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mohayang na lang ko woist
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mohayang na lang ko woist
dili nana avoiding, conceeding nana lolz
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protecting yourself from too much injuries
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protecting yourself from too much injuries
sabagay para walay kadaot mo uu nalang hahaha
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dili najud ka muoli? hahaha
Di ko oi! Kidnapon pa lang ko nimo! Nya rape-on sad! ::) Adto na lang ko sa Barrow Island. Maau did2 kai naa ning mga chicks mo-safeguard nko. Magkita lang nya ta did2. Hehehe. :) ;)
(http://i300.photobucket.com/albums/nn3/BoholBizz/Edisonbday072_resize.jpg)
Barrow Island [aka Temptation Island :-* aka Island of Love :-*] is located to the north of Onslow and to the west of Karratha in Western Australia's northwest.
Just a reminder for lovely Filipino lasses back home to lodge your resumes.
See you at the nude beach. Hope one's there.
:) ;)
Let's have our breeding process in this Temptation Island!!!!! Make love in this Island of Love!!!!!
For healthier and longer living offspring, what would be a better partner than this Taurus macho? ???
:) ;)
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bukaka na lang gud para di sakit
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bukaka na lang gud para di sakit
Para ni Felix ??? ..... No way!!!!! :P ;D ;)
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protecting yourself from too much injuries
Di ko oi! Kidnapon pa lang ko nimo! Nya rape-on sad! ::) Adto na lang ko sa Barrow Island. Maau did2 kai naa ning mga chicks mo-safeguard nko. Magkita lang nya ta did2. Hehehe. :) ;)
(http://i300.photobucket.com/albums/nn3/BoholBizz/Edisonbday072_resize.jpg)
Yes, indeed! They'll be my guardian angels against evil Felix. :) ;)
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Di ko oi! Kidnapon pa lang ko nimo! Nya rape-on sad! ::) Adto na lang ko sa Barrow Island. Maau did2 kai naa ning mga chicks mo-safeguard nko. Magkita lang nya ta did2. Hehehe. :) ;)
(http://i300.photobucket.com/albums/nn3/BoholBizz/Edisonbday072_resize.jpg)
Yes, indeed! They'll be my guardian angels against evil Felix. :) ;)
Charlie's (eh, este Juan's) Angels. Hehehe.
:) ;)
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eh kung si Jessica Soho nga daw ma rape?
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Dunno who she is?
???
Pero kon kursunada ko, I will rescue her.
Then, I will resume the rape!
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Why not?
???
I deserve it. My reward for rescuing her.
;D :D :) ;)
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hihihi
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hihihi
Kumusta ka na, Choi! Gilibak ka namo dinhi. Hehe :) ;)
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Kumusta ka na, Choi! Gilibak ka namo dinhi. Hehe :) ;)
hihihi im back at work na man juan...walay mupatol nako nga young grass kay wala man ko'y monetary riches like you hihi
What have you done so far to change the circumstances you're in? :) ;)
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sisigaw talaga ako
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sisigaw talaga ako
Naa tingali tigpadala nyag periodic remittances mao ng wa na mo-abroad.
Ingna c tart pangitaa aron among huk2Xan. ;D
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aray!
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aray!
(http://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn200/rarodge/My%2041st%20Birthday%20-%20part%202/127_zps8d69f517.jpg)
(http://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn200/rarodge/My%2041st%20Birthday%20-%20part%206/598_zps3a9c779b.jpg)
(http://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn200/rarodge/My%2041st%20Birthday%20-%20part%206/597_zps0cef4cbf.jpg)
Kaya pala wala na syang gana mag-abroad! :D ;)
Understand now why RG is so upset that you ignored his request for a karaoke for his Boholster Bar and Grill? ??? ;)
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kalami moment ba ani...
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kalami moment ba ani...
Mao ng nag-request c RG og karaoke. Magpagawa sya ng mga cubicled karaoke lounges sa Boholster Bar and Grill. So, lovers can have privacy when having their sweet moments of preludes and interludes while watching stimulating shows. :D ;)
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kalami moment ba ani...
nakaka-inggit!
:D ;)
Yet another reason you should apply for a mining job here.
Aron kada week off nimo sa ato anhi ihurot ang imong kuarta.
By then, duna nai karaoke lounges ang
Boholster Bar and Grill.
:) ;)
Mao ng nag-request c RG og karaoke. Magpagawa sya ng mga cubicled karaoke lounges sa Boholster Bar and Grill. So, lovers can have privacy when having their sweet moments of preludes and interludes while watching stimulating shows. :D ;)
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kalami moment ba ani...
Quote from: OMG! on February 22, 2012, 04:44:27 AM
(http://i300.photobucket.com/albums/nn3/BoholBizz/Female%20Celebs/073e5a54.jpg)(http://i300.photobucket.com/albums/nn3/BoholBizz/Female%20Celebs/828da0d2.jpg)
Cristine Reyes is one of the sexy and cutest stars in Philippine showbiz.
:-* :-* :-* :-* :-*
nakaka-inggit!
:D ;)
Yet another reason you should apply for a mining job here.
Aron kada week off nimo sa ato anhi ihurot ang imong kuarta.
By then, duna nai karaoke lounges ang
Boholster Bar and Grill.
:) ;)
Duna na sai luxury-type dongas ang Ilihan farm.
:) ;)
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malaman talaga...ok lang na dyan mauubos kita sa mining, sarap na sarap naman..hahhaa
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malaman talaga...ok lang na dyan mauubos kita sa mining, sarap na sarap naman..hahhaa
Ang mining, choi, mi cycle – boom and bust.
Pagdating ng mining bust, 'di na ma-irenew ang contract mo. Anong gagawin mo? Titinda ng balut sa sidewalk? ??? Hehehe :) ;)
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Ang mining, choi, mi cycle – boom and bust.
Pagdating ng mining bust, 'di na ma-irenew ang contract mo. Anong gagawin mo? Titinda ng balut sa sidewalk? ??? Hehehe :) ;)
Seriously, pahimusli ang higayon once tanggap na.
Very easy to replace unskilled workers. Lalo na ngayon na dumaming dumami ang mga refugees/asylum seekers. Never-ending ang arrival ng mga boat people.
Whereas, if you’ve acquired skills, easy to relocate you. :) ;)
Ay, nako! Siempre, toilet cleaning or any unskilled work ‘di kailangang study. Pero kung tanggap na, kontento ka lang ba na mag-toilet cleaning lang for whole life? ???
Once you’re in there, then there’s an opportunity to up-skill, retrain and get to know people. Enrol in an online course for mining. Pili-a ng course nga in demand kaau. :) ;)
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daghan kag kontra diri juan pero nakasugakod lang gihapon ka, and the rest are gone hahahaha by the way, congratz for becoming a director Megastar right now with 3,737 10,000 posts.. not bad at all, keep it up!
:) ;)
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di na talaga mahabol pa....
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hihihi im back at work na man juan...walay mupatol nako nga young grass kay wala man ko'y monetary riches like you hihi
Yes, Felix, here's something to change the circumstances you're in.
The FIFO Song
The FIFO Song (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sK6bv_v3dPo#ws)
:D ;)
nakaka-inggit!
:D ;)
Yet another reason you should apply for a mining job here.
Aron kada week off nimo sa ato anhi ihurot ang imong kuarta.
By then, duna nai karaoke lounges ang
Boholster Bar and Grill.
:) ;)
come mining bust, ... busted ka rin!
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D