Don't be so quick to blame others

Remember, when you point a finger at someone, three more fingers are pointing back at you...

Remember, when you point a finger at someone, three more fingers are pointing back at you...

Be warned, though. People tend to be subjective when presenting their views.
"The focus of subjectivity is a distorting mirror."  
- Hans-Georg Gadamer

Bottom line is, be objective.
Objectivity means being able to assess what is real without being biased by self-interest, tribalism, agenda, ideology, or emotion. We think of objectivity as being particularly important in the work of scientists and judges, but in reality it is of value in any role that involves decision making. Without objectivity fairness and accuracy suffer, and far to easily we end up doing harm when we are trying to do good.

When we demonstrate an ability to be objective, other people seek our opinions, particularly in conflict situations. Our objectivity becomes a community resource.

When we demonstrate an ability to be objective, other people seek our opinions, particularly in conflict situations. Our objectivity becomes a community resource.

I actually agree!

I actually agree!

What if the community itself adapts a subjective attitude? Therefore, has a bigoted mentality? The consensus decision-making will then be focused on a distorted mirror.
Should that happen, your opinion will fall into deaf ears. Hehehe.
Masabonan ka lag maau.  
That's when the issue becomes political. You gotta convince the community that they're wrong. See what me getting at?

“Advertising is the art of convincing people to spend money they don't have for something they don't need.” 
- Will Rogers
 

Yes, Kristel. Politics is a ruthless game.
Shldya become a pissing contest target, whatya gonna do?
Betya be like Taal Volcano. Peaceful, calm and serene one day. Then, spewing molten lava everywhere the next day.

"I'd rather face the mouth of an hungry lion,
than face the mouth of an angry woman".

I actually agree!

What if the community itself adapts a subjective attitude? Therefore, has a bigoted mentality? The consensus decision-making will then be focused on a distorted mirror.
Should that happen, your opinion will fall into deaf ears. Hehehe.
Masabonan ka lag maau. 
That's when the issue becomes political. You gotta convince the community that they're wrong. See what me getting at?

“Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others. (anonymous)”

“Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others. (anonymous)”

You're just a font of quotes these days, aren't you?

You're just a font of quotes these days, aren't you?

Not fair. More spread out, actually. Oh, well, perhaps, when confronting you. For obvious reasons, rather focus on quotes. Hehehe.