ARE YOU AN INTROVERT OR AN EXTROVERT?

when in love, i feel like and extrovert

How about when making love?

By Carol Bainbridge

Contrary to what most people think, an introvert is not simply a person who is shy. In fact, being shy has little to do with being an introvert! Shyness has an element of apprehension, nervousness and anxiety, and while an introvert may also be shy, introversion itself is not shyness. Basically, an introvert is a person who is energized by being alone and whose energy is drained by being around other people.

Introverts are more concerned with the inner world of the mind. They enjoy thinking, exploring their thoughts and feelings. They often avoid social situations because being around people drains their energy. This is true even if they have good social skills. After being with people for any length of time, such as at a party, they need time alone to "recharge."

When introverts want to be alone, it is not, by itself, a sign of depression. It means that they either need to regain their energy from being around people or that they simply want the time to be with their own thoughts. Being with people, even people they like and are comfortable with, can prevent them from their desire to be quietly introspective.

Being introspective, though, does not mean that an introvert never has conversations. However, those conversations are generally about ideas and concepts, not about what they consider the trivial matters of social small talk.

Introverts make up about 60% of the gifted population but only about 25-40% of the general population.

By Carol Bainbridge

Most people believe that an extrovert is a person who is friendly and outgoing. While that may be true, that is not the true meaning of extroversion. Basically, an extrovert is a person who is energized by being around other people. This is the opposite of an introvert who is energized by being alone.

Extroverts tend to "fade" when alone and can easily become bored without other people around. When given the chance, an extrovert will talk with someone else rather than sit alone and think. In fact, extroverts tend to think as they speak, unlike introverts who are far more likely to think before they speak. Extroverts often think best when they are talking. Concepts just don't seem real to them unless they can talk about them; reflecting on them isn't enough.

Extroverts enjoy social situations and even seek them out since they enjoy being around people. Their ability to make small talk makes them appear to be more socially adept than introverts (although introverts may have little difficulty talking to people they don't know if they can talk about concepts or issues).

Extrovert behavior seems to be the standard in American society, which means that other behavior is judged against the ways an extrovert would behave. However, extroverted behavior is simply a manifestation of the way an extrovert interacts with the world. Extroverts are interested in and concerned with the external world.

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And the people you've encountered since birth. Your reaction is based on past experience in dealing with people. They made you who you are.
Your experience parallels mine. You now have the "exile syndrome". Some of your tf ones have become tf once. Same with your siblings.

Like the ten little Indians in the nursery rhyme. One by one they abandon you. Sooner or later, you'll become a lonely drifter like me. Hehe 

In between ata ako.. hehehe.. Kasi minsan shy ako & gusto ko lang mag-isa, ayoko sumama sa crowd pero minsan naman i enjoy having fun with my friends, socializing & bida sa kwentuhan.. Siguro depende lang sa situation talaga..

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In a nutshell, how you react to a situation depends on how you've been programmed since childbirth on confronting such a situation.
Eg. O/s Pinoy. Why does he continually send home periodic remittances?
Because he was programmed to believe that he owes it to kababayans back home. As the Bisaya would say, “Kanang utang nimo namo, di na kabayran og sapi. Kai kon di pa namo, di ka maka-abroad”. Translated into simple English, the o/s Pinoy is perpetually indebted to the kababayans back home. Ang nangyayari, nagdamag sa Internet cafe ni tart playing doti instead of job searching. Consequently, skipper is beginning to shy away from them.
Now, he’s an out-and-out extrovert. In the world of glitz and glamour. Attending social functions everywhere.
Only a matter of time and he'll be viewed as a hopeless introvert by Boholanos. Called "kuripot", "swapang", "mata-pobre", etc., etc., etc.
Yugoslav kitchen personnel. While still working in Koolan Island mine, most of the kitchen personnel were Yugoslav peasants who migrated here and called Australia home. Poorly educated. Asked them, “Do you send money home”? Replied, “If they want money, they can migrate here. Heaps of jobs in the mines”. Different programming.

In simple mathematics, Heredity + Environment = You. Environment consists of physical environment and social environment.