Soulmate

Ok. I was referring to the behaviour and action [b&a] of the girl in the movie which was similar to the b&a of the girl in my case. Nothing else.
In the movie, the girl hounded Eastwood. She needed a psychiatrist.
In my case, the girl hounded me. She needed a pr. But has a private agenda of her own afterwards. How I found out? Rather not divulge.
From stories heard, so many unscupulous foreign women merely after pr. Not just Pinays.

that seems to be the trend nowadays, bubba.

that seems to be trend nowadays, bubba.

As mentioned, finding the proverbial needle? Might find it. Who knows? 

As mentioned, finding the proverbial needle? Might find it. Who knows?

another fact of life, hoss.

another fact of life, hoss.

Not all women are like that. Me an optimist. Got nothing to lose anyway. Been thru it. Hehehe.

Not all women are like that. Me an optimist. Got nothing to lose anyway. Been thru it. Hehehe.

of course not!!  but there are some...........a few.  a couple of cousins from both sides of my family fell prey to those few, unfortunately.  but both of them landed on their feet after a while.  in fact, one actually found a very nice and beautiful second wife, who was studying to be a doctor when he met her.  and she even treated his kids from the first marriage like her own.  and after they had their own children, she never played favorites between her step-kids and her own kids.  lucky him!!

Intelligent women usually make better wives. Understand values better. Morons are hopeless.

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Thought some might be interested in this.

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Hello all,

My wife and I have just seperated after 2 years marriage. Prior to this she was living and working overseas on cruise ships (she is filipino national) and we had a relationship in 2002 for 6 months on ship then she flew to australia each year for about a month at a time. overall prior to february 2008 when she arrived she had been in australia for a total of about 100 odd days in the 5 years. She arrived february 2008 and we married june 2008 and had our daughter march this year. She has just satisfied the 2 year residency but has not received confirmation of her being a resident. Basically I have discovered hundreds of emails to another guy she has been seeing all this time as well prior to her coming to aus and maybe a couple of other fellows as well.

She has contributed nothing prior to marriage to the asset base and since marriage she has earnt about 60000 dollars and sent 10000 of this back home.

For obvious reasons now she did not want to sign a Pre Nup as we have 4 houses all in my name all bought prior to her settling in australia but since we started going out in 2002. I managed to get her to sign a Binding Financial Agreement last month which gives her the proceeds of the sale of 2 houses maybe 100000 or so.

Enough of the money - dont really care.........

My beautiful daughter...........after 12 weeks old my wife went back to work I flew her sisters out to help with the baby and the baby was on formula and the mother breast fed at night sporadically. When my daughter was 4 months old I discovered the emails and sent the sisters packing and have been looking after my daughter each day with the wife still present but at work and the baby on the bottle and again the wife feeding her from the boob at night. This has been the case for two months me at home on holidays looking after her care

She has just moved out as I have had to get a Aus Fed Police alert on my daughter as she is a flight risk. That upset my wife as she wants to take her home but she had threatened me with not returning. I had no other option. We also have court booked for early October due to the nature of the alert. She has as i said moved out and feeding from the boob now I am sure to establish her as primary carer. She is still dropping the baby off to me when she is working as it saves her on childcare. I will have her until mid september at this stage.

What are my chances of having my daughter one week on and one week off? Has anyone had a win like that.

We are also going to mediation but she is sticking to her guns and saying when I am back at work I can only see her once a week on my day off.

There are no Stay-away orders YET. i am sure they will come. I have provided a beautiful home and future for my family but now it is all up in the air.

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Not meant to offend the Pinay. Otherwise, I won't be looking for a Pinay wife. Just want to show that not all apples in that basket are good ones. There's a few rotten ones. So to speak.

Wow! The posting above started with 5807 views. Now, in less than a day, it's a staggering 5927! Hehehe.

Intelligent women usually make better wives. Understand values better. Morons are hopeless.

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Thought some might be interested in this.

___________________________________________

Hello all,

My wife and I have just seperated after 2 years marriage. Prior to this she was living and working overseas on cruise ships (she is filipino national) and we had a relationship in 2002 for 6 months on ship then she flew to australia each year for about a month at a time. overall prior to february 2008 when she arrived she had been in australia for a total of about 100 odd days in the 5 years. She arrived february 2008 and we married june 2008 and had our daughter march this year. She has just satisfied the 2 year residency but has not received confirmation of her being a resident. Basically I have discovered hundreds of emails to another guy she has been seeing all this time as well prior to her coming to aus and maybe a couple of other fellows as well.

She has contributed nothing prior to marriage to the asset base and since marriage she has earnt about 60000 dollars and sent 10000 of this back home.

For obvious reasons now she did not want to sign a Pre Nup as we have 4 houses all in my name all bought prior to her settling in australia but since we started going out in 2002. I managed to get her to sign a Binding Financial Agreement last month which gives her the proceeds of the sale of 2 houses maybe 100000 or so.

Enough of the money - dont really care.........

My beautiful daughter...........after 12 weeks old my wife went back to work I flew her sisters out to help with the baby and the baby was on formula and the mother breast fed at night sporadically. When my daughter was 4 months old I discovered the emails and sent the sisters packing and have been looking after my daughter each day with the wife still present but at work and the baby on the bottle and again the wife feeding her from the boob at night. This has been the case for two months me at home on holidays looking after her care

She has just moved out as I have had to get a Aus Fed Police alert on my daughter as she is a flight risk. That upset my wife as she wants to take her home but she had threatened me with not returning. I had no other option. We also have court booked for early October due to the nature of the alert. She has as i said moved out and feeding from the boob now I am sure to establish her as primary carer. She is still dropping the baby off to me when she is working as it saves her on childcare. I will have her until mid september at this stage.

What are my chances of having my daughter one week on and one week off? Has anyone had a win like that.

We are also going to mediation but she is sticking to her guns and saying when I am back at work I can only see her once a week on my day off.

There are no Stay-away orders YET. i am sure they will come. I have provided a beautiful home and future for my family but now it is all up in the air.

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Not meant to offend the Pinay. Otherwise, I won't be looking for a Pinay wife. Just want to show that not all apples in that basket are good ones. There's a few rotten ones. So to speak.

there are programs and institutions that assist guys like those.  I'm sure those institutions are also international.   

Someone once told me that life is too short.  Well, now after some time of thoughts, I'd say, life is too short to spend it being unhappy when you have a choice to do otherwise.  So, instead of having any animosity, why not make amends 'coz one might just miss that opportunity again.  Things do happen in strange ways and assumes a life of it's own.  

there are programs and institutions that assist guys like those.  I'm sure those institutions are also international.   

Yes, there are.  But things are moving at a snail's pace. The powers-that-be are too busy compaigning for the next elections.